I lost a lot of who I was on Election Day, 2016. Donald Trump had been in my media feed for many years when I lived in CT and NY. He was a braggart without any compassion, and somehow he ended up being our president, campaigning by attacking the most vulnerable.
It's been hard to crack jokes, hard to relax, hard to enjoy life as migrant children were abducted, Muslims were banned from flying into our country, hate crimes abounded, and our government screwed up defending us from a pandemic.
Joe Biden has today been declared our President-Elect. He has been in my media feed for as long as Trump has been as a prominent Senator. I've not always been happy with his performance---he has a lot to atone for with respect to how Anita Hill was treated---but he was a sound voice as Chair of the Senate Foreign Relations Committee and an active partner to Barack Obama in a presidential administration that was as good as any I've lived through.
During the election I've encountered tales of private moments where Biden sought to comfort those in sorrow, and they seem unstaged and consistent with who he is. Far from perfect, he dubbed himself a transitional candidate and chose a gifted woman of color as his running mate.
There are so many bad things to deal with, the pandemic, the climate crisis, the hatred running amok in our country. I feel better, not good, but so much better knowing that Joe Biden will be leading us as we face these challenges and not the sadist Donald Trump.